The holidays are a great time to show that special person in your life that you are thinking of them. Whether it is the girl in your office you’ve been eyeing, a friendship you want to take to the next level, or someone you have been seeing for awhile, the art of gift giving can say a lot in very few words. Giving a gift is a part of a modern social repartee, and the perfect opportunity to show your thoughtfulness and charm. It is a simple and generous gesture that can yield remarkable appreciation and general feelings of bliss. And who doesn’t want feelings of bliss? Here are three quick things to keep in mind.
*Buy her something that she wouldn’t buy herself. What’s that luxury item she’s spotted recently but would never buy for herself? Think interesting art, or decadent chocolates. This present doesn’t have to break the bank, it might be a fragrant candle, or beautifully made scarf. Remember to look out for her cues, women tend to be vocal about the things they like.
*Give her an experience. Not all gifts have to come in boxes with a bow. There are some great gifts that come in the shape of special event tickets tucked into a card, or a memorable evening about town or a series of dance lessons. These are great because it can be a chance to spend time with that person without the necessity or stress of calling it a “date”. Remember: If you are giving the gift of an experience, be sure there is something small for her to open. Maybe a card with tickets inside, or even a small pair of mittens, if the experience is to go ice-skating.
*Use your strengths. Are you a great chef? Cook her a meal. Kick-ass tennis player? Give her a lesson. Computer genius? Set up something special for her computer. Utilize the strengths you have in your repertoire and give her the gift of your time and energy. Women adore watching a man excelling at something he enjoys. Remember: Make the gift official with a card stating your present.
No matter the gift, or your budget, don’t forget the old adage that “It’s the thought that counts”. Utilize the opportunity to show your kindness and inventiveness,. There is one last thing to remember: Don’t forget to sign the card.